it's how to Ask for Favours

 Have you ever wanted something from one of your friends or coworkers but didn't know how to ask a favor? There are ways you can do it that make the situation easier and less daunting.

How to Ask for Favors : 

1. Be direct but polite. 

2. Don't make it sound bad.

3. Avoid guilt.

4. Don't cross the line.

5.Show respect.

6. Avoid constant one-sided favors.

7. Be personal but straightforward.

8. Take "No" for an answer.

9. Give the person an opportunity for escape.

10. Give a Reason.

We always have to show our polite when asking for favours. For example, you need your friend to help you move a heavy table.  Start by offering him your appreciation by using the following phrases in this situation.

• Can I ask you a favour?
• Could you do me a favour?
• Could I ask you to do me a favour?
• I am wondering if I could ask you to do me a favour?
• Could you help me moving the table?
• Would you help me moving the table please?

Even in the situation you want to make your friend or your colleague more important, you can exaggerate the favour.

• Could you do me a really big favour?
• Could I ask you to do me a huge favour?

Remember to thank to the person who helps you do the your favour.

• Thank you very much.
• Million thanks for your help / kindness.
• I highly appreciate your help.
• I really owe you one.

You can make your words stronger by showing how important the favour is:

• You’ve saved my life
• You’re an absolute life-saver!